Challenges are something that makes us who we actually are.
We human constantly try to define boundaries and push them further to
achieve more. We have always been terrified of our dreams. When we were young and
child, we used to get afraid of the ghosts and as we grew up, problems of
surviving in this world started to take a toll on us. It seems people have
forgot to live their dreams.
Only few of us might have dared to dream and rest of us just
have the fear of fear. A human race was created to survive his dreams, we are
made superior because we have ability to think and do something that majority
of the animals aren’t capable of.
The only thing that you should no fear in life is fear
itself. Only the word itself is fearful, else, if you try to see a bigger
picture, you will find that we have lot more to achieve then just stay there
and be afraid.
Challenges and Fear
We have challenges in life, we being an optimistic creature,
we try to see the pros of completing those challenges. I don’t say its bad to
get afraid or Fear is a bad thing, it is the most beautiful thing
that can drive your life to success.
Challenges bring fear of not completing the challenge. But it
if fear of not completing the challenge, can turn your thinking and deed around
towards completing the challenges in the most cheerful and with best efforts
possible. Here I will be discussing about what you can be doing to avoid that
fear and use it in the most positive way possible.
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Fear is failing to understand that fear isn’t the
thing that you cannot complete the challenge, but its your inability to realize
that you will succeed.
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Challenge your fear, don’t fear your challenges.
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Day dreaming is another thing that drives you to
fear. You just keep thinking about how miserably you will fail your challenges,
instead just go and get what you dream of.
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Biggest fear is that you actually don’t know
what your challenges are. You just are a lazy fellow, carefree about anything
and everything that is happening around you. How do you think its going to help
you achieve your dreams?
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You give up on your dreams when actually you are
perfectly prepared by the challenges that came forth.
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You just fear that using your valuable time that
you call it “Free Time”, in achieving victory over challenges, you think
its going to waste your free time. Well, the word free is a waste in itself.
So how can you actually get ahead of your fear? Well have a
look at some tips below and ask yourself, isn’t that something you have not
been doing.
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Don’t fear to fail. Failure isn’t an end
in life, its very beautiful yet painful bend in life.
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Be SMART
S-Specific M-Measurable A-Actionable R-Relevant T-Time bound
This is what you need to have in your life as goal.
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Leave the ego of working alone and have an opinion
or helping hand from someone every time you fail to do it yourself. Getting help
won’t decrease your worth.
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Most off, Be Active. Something is better
done now than never.
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Just face the fear, don’t show your back.
Conclusion
We can now conclude this post by saying that ones you start
to realize your fear and start to chase them away, you will notice that you are
happier every day. You wake up fresh, you tackle the most difficult problems in
the life with ease, and you have a clear vision for what your decisions should
look like and what consequences it might have. Realizing these key things in
life will make you stand above your fears, dominating all your challenges.
